愚人

原来，我从来都没放下过。

只是一直在欺骗自己，欺骗别人。

告诉自己，没什么大不了的。
告诉别人，我已经放下了。
其实，是自己在伤害自己。

愚人节快乐，愚人。




第十章 31/3/2013

风的呼唤

人生

只有尝试过失败才能真正体会成功的滋味。


没失败过，怎懂得珍惜？
没失败过，怎懂得感恩？
没失败过，怎懂得努力？
没失败过，怎懂得付出？

没失败过，怎明白成功背后的辛酸？


人生里，好多事情都得经过一次彻底的败化，才能真正地领悟、省悟。
长期处于安然的地位，跌倒时，会伤得比任何时候更痛。
更何况是没跌过？

有感而发（二）

Timing vs Chance

has been more than half year I'm here in Dublin. a western country, yeah, a place where everyone speaks English. something weird must be happening to my brain, i just cant find any improvement on my English mastery either on speaking or WRITING. alright, i must admit im quite stupid in language part.

if im not mistaken, the left part of brain is all about memorizing and logic thinking while the right side is more to creativity, music and language stuffs. or the other way round? im not sure, ahhh lazy to google it anyway. the only thing i wana say is that my logic thinking is better than language. that's all ==

okay back to the topic!!!!

Timing and the chances......

hmm actually it is nothing much. just wana share a story my lecturer has shared with us this morning. i personally feel it is very interesting and true. so here we go....

he went to a funeral of his best friend who committed suicide due to a tragic incident. and at there, he met another best friend (hopefully this doesnt sound confusing @@)  so that best friend, the ALIVE one (ok another bullshit) told him smtg like this:

"i dont understand why he choose this way to end his life. there must be solution to his problem. has he ever thought about how will his family become after his death? who is going to take care of his wife and children?" and alot of why why why. he was smoking that time while talking.

so my lecturer answered him: "we will never know why. this is his decision, a decision which cannot be forgiven and will be regretted even during his afterlife. so as you, you are leading yourself to that situation too."

the friend didnt understand why my lecturer would say that, it was like cursing him. oh well.

so my lecturer explained: "smoking is a way to kill yourself, not instantly, slowly.... as time goes by, smoking leads to different kind of diseases. even lung cancer which can kill you within a short time. think about your family, your loving wife, your children, who is going to take care of them?" after a short silence, the friend threw the whole pack of cigarette inside the bin. after a few months my lecturer was told that the friend has stopped smoking completely. "thank you friend, you change my life!" this sentence is what he got. but think about the meaning within those little words.

after that we are told something that i will never forget in my life.

"you are all going to become a doctor. sometimes patients are stubborn. oh wait, i should say all patients is stubborn. they wont listen to your advice. i dont know why, they just wont.  you need to look for the timing and the chance. some moments are the best to influence them and affect them with the things you have learnt. the best timing is the golden chance for you to change a person's life. Grab the chance when you have it. like the story i told you. you, yes everyone of you can save a life with just few words, at the correct time"

Timing, Chances. i cant deny their importance and how significant are they in our life.
health, career, education, family, relationship, almost everything.

this is real true in relationship =') timing, chances, they are important. real important.......

第九章 28/3/2013

政治

政治的黑暗，人民的期待。

不止这一时，关乎下一代。

领袖无能耐，祸害无法盖。

国家落斜坡，我感叹悲哀。





有感而发（一） 17/3/2013

时间

好长的一段时间没来更新了。
考试的忙碌，感情的迷茫，
让我不知所措。

很多人多说：
时间能冲淡一切。
但是，它真的能吗？
答案对我来说一想可知：不。

时间匆匆地溜走，
我的心依然停顿在同样的地方。
是我留难自己，还是这就是所谓的命运。
心理找不出答案。


第八章 17/3/2013